Tonight was grand! We had a client dinner and function afterwards...its always nice getting wined and dined!
Work wasn't too busy it was nice to be able to relax and go with the flow for once.
I had my first reject...I am slighly embarssed! I winked at this guy MTL and said "no thank you" HOW RUDE. Ok I just laugh it off when people wink at me because its awkward! But seriously no thank you?? NO OFFENSE you ain't that hot mister.
How am I suppose to optimize my match.com?? Like do I actually send people messages?? Is that what I'm suppose to do..in today's society we are taught that girls should start approaching guys and how men love it. But then down south its quite the opposite make the guys come to you. So am I suppose to sit there and wait for a guy to come approach me by winking or sending me a message?? What is the proper etiquette for this?
Indianguy IM's me tonight and I don't know how to ignore these damn IM's because I'm not INTERESTED! I don't respond and he says this "hey love your picture", "how are you", "I'm so tired...", "are you the shy type...??" umm if I haven't responded to you within I don't know 10 minutes that means I'm not in to you!!
Man- great guy, asian, seems really sweet, he is an engineer, lives in Brooklyn. This is his message to me I've shorten it because its a book- Hey! I've been wanting to do some touristy things and really learn about Manhattan/NYC. I've never really done the whole double decker, visit Coney/Ellis Island, The last couple of weekends I've been doing road trips and I recently went to Boston. I'm planning a trip to Washington D.C. your more than welcome to join...haha yeah I know we've never met but I'd give you the benefit of the doubt that you won't kill me hahaa! I'm a fire fighter at night to keep my mundane life interesting". Where do I even begin?? Oh I don't know that I've only spoken to you maybe two times and you want to do a road trip (7 hour car ride) with a girl you've never met. Not gonna lie seems kinda desperate? But lets be honest everyone on Match.com has some percentage of desperate in them...look at me lol! But no seriously...too soon!!! How the hell do I respond to this??
Ace- He said to me " I enjoyed viewing your profile. I enjoy spending time with close friends and family. I love to travel and take long road trips upstate for a weekend of camping and hiking. Not to mention places where its warm and tropical! My passion is cooking. Love to create all sorts of dishes. Making my friends laugh is a great thing. I love to tell jokes and make them laugh all the time. I love to go dancing at lounges. On a serious side, I have a strong family values and manners. Am a responsible person with a professional career. I am in search of a soul mate. Explore world together hand in hand! Hope to hear from you soon"
WOW. Deep e-mail as you can see. Seemed like a decent guy until I clicked on his profile...bald, has a landing strip on his CHIN. DONE moving on. GOOD LUCK SEARCHING!!!
I'm going on a date tomorrow evening with Mark. I'm a bit nervous..what happens if I'm not what he's expecting?? What happens if he isn't what I'm expecting?? I don't know what I'm wearing yet alone what about conversation topics?? I feel like this is high school dating again!!
Matt messaged me and to be quite honest he is getting to be too cocky. I told him the days I was available and how I will be going home. He said he loves people from where I am from and his days vary day by day. Well honey, I am not doing something last minute you gotta give me at least 24-48 hour notice.
The 15 guys I winked at last night...I got nothing! Nobody has winked back or messaged me. What do I do? I guess I should start sending messages?? This is so weird..who woulda thought I would be doing on-line dating?? WEIRD.
Work wasn't too busy it was nice to be able to relax and go with the flow for once.
I had my first reject...I am slighly embarssed! I winked at this guy MTL and said "no thank you" HOW RUDE. Ok I just laugh it off when people wink at me because its awkward! But seriously no thank you?? NO OFFENSE you ain't that hot mister.
How am I suppose to optimize my match.com?? Like do I actually send people messages?? Is that what I'm suppose to do..in today's society we are taught that girls should start approaching guys and how men love it. But then down south its quite the opposite make the guys come to you. So am I suppose to sit there and wait for a guy to come approach me by winking or sending me a message?? What is the proper etiquette for this?
Indianguy IM's me tonight and I don't know how to ignore these damn IM's because I'm not INTERESTED! I don't respond and he says this "hey love your picture", "how are you", "I'm so tired...", "are you the shy type...??" umm if I haven't responded to you within I don't know 10 minutes that means I'm not in to you!!
Man- great guy, asian, seems really sweet, he is an engineer, lives in Brooklyn. This is his message to me I've shorten it because its a book- Hey! I've been wanting to do some touristy things and really learn about Manhattan/NYC. I've never really done the whole double decker, visit Coney/Ellis Island, The last couple of weekends I've been doing road trips and I recently went to Boston. I'm planning a trip to Washington D.C. your more than welcome to join...haha yeah I know we've never met but I'd give you the benefit of the doubt that you won't kill me hahaa! I'm a fire fighter at night to keep my mundane life interesting". Where do I even begin?? Oh I don't know that I've only spoken to you maybe two times and you want to do a road trip (7 hour car ride) with a girl you've never met. Not gonna lie seems kinda desperate? But lets be honest everyone on Match.com has some percentage of desperate in them...look at me lol! But no seriously...too soon!!! How the hell do I respond to this??
Ace- He said to me " I enjoyed viewing your profile. I enjoy spending time with close friends and family. I love to travel and take long road trips upstate for a weekend of camping and hiking. Not to mention places where its warm and tropical! My passion is cooking. Love to create all sorts of dishes. Making my friends laugh is a great thing. I love to tell jokes and make them laugh all the time. I love to go dancing at lounges. On a serious side, I have a strong family values and manners. Am a responsible person with a professional career. I am in search of a soul mate. Explore world together hand in hand! Hope to hear from you soon"
WOW. Deep e-mail as you can see. Seemed like a decent guy until I clicked on his profile...bald, has a landing strip on his CHIN. DONE moving on. GOOD LUCK SEARCHING!!!
I'm going on a date tomorrow evening with Mark. I'm a bit nervous..what happens if I'm not what he's expecting?? What happens if he isn't what I'm expecting?? I don't know what I'm wearing yet alone what about conversation topics?? I feel like this is high school dating again!!
Matt messaged me and to be quite honest he is getting to be too cocky. I told him the days I was available and how I will be going home. He said he loves people from where I am from and his days vary day by day. Well honey, I am not doing something last minute you gotta give me at least 24-48 hour notice.
The 15 guys I winked at last night...I got nothing! Nobody has winked back or messaged me. What do I do? I guess I should start sending messages?? This is so weird..who woulda thought I would be doing on-line dating?? WEIRD.
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