So this morning when I left my apartment I realized oh my god what happens if a guy see's me on the street is on match.com?? I started freaking out a little because I felt like I was getting stared out. Maybe its my imagination?? I cannot believe I am signed up for match.com!
What do I do if I run into a guy that like winks at me equivalent to a poke on Facebook, or the one that messages you? I am so worried that I am going to get stopped at Trader Joes and a guy say "hey I just winked at you..how you doin?" I would be beyond mortified..or maybe what happens if someone approaches me at the bar? How do I respond to that?
And another point- what happens if I go on a date and the guy does NOT look like the guy in the picture. How do I react to that?? I mean do I say your picture lied? And what about myself? What happens if the guy says umm your much prettier in the picture compared in person.
Last point- what happens if I meet the perfect guy? How do you tell your family and friends oh by the way I met him on MATCH.COM! Can you imagine the comments and remarks I may get? Am I being silly and doing this??
So far the responses have been pretty good. I can't decide if I should start prowling on guys or do I wait for them to come to me? What is the proper etiquette about on-line dating? I guess I should start winking at guys and see what may happen. I think I also may spice things up and find some creepy guys hahaha :)!
Mrk- I responded to his e-mail granted he is 27 thats ok...I mean a it older is fine..more experience right?? Well, he asked me what I have planned for this week..so lets hope for a date!! His pictures are pretty cute and I mean who knows right??
Man- Ok not gonna lie this is the first time I've like talked to an asian. Hahahaha how awful is that? I mean lets give him the benefit of the doubt. I am a bit hesitant because he messaged me at like 2 PM and I was at work. Does this guy not have a job?? No job no date lol. He Im"ed me..and said "hey cutie" I can't...I just ugh...hahahaha
Matt- He asked me what I was up to this weekend so maybe drinks?? He is SO my type!!! Cute, preppy, tall!!, not gonna lie he seem cocky/prick like...errr whatevs
Butta- He seems like an interesting character I can't tell if he is "hood" or a frat boy. He is a 6'3 ginger!!! I mean no problems I have an open mind! But again he messaged me earlier in the day...so what does he do?? Not sure...
Tonight a guy named Chris IM's me. Problems and red flags: He's 40 YEARS OLD, doesn't live in the city, is "hollering" at me. Ok match.com wtf? where is this age filter thing?? And secondly don't talk to me you can be my father freak.
So I winked:
at a northern gentleman (25 finance, super prep and so cute!)
jackattack (eh..kinda attractive, finance, 26)
africalover (worked in the peace corp and is now in finance, really cute and clearly has a good heart)
will (super cute, finance, 25)
mtl (he's worked abroad in china-such as hong kong, shanghai as a banker 26, SUPER cute!!)
italian love (OMG so hot!!! european!!)
Joe (he's asian!, use to be a finance guy and now owns his own photography business in nyc and nj, loved his pics, really cute, seems down to earth)
PJ (is 26, really cute!!, but i'm a bit worried...under about his date he put african american, native american and thats it..soo problemo??)
Dave (seems like a sweet guy as well...world traveler!, but again..has a thing for african american and hispanics...uhhh)
What do I do if I run into a guy that like winks at me equivalent to a poke on Facebook, or the one that messages you? I am so worried that I am going to get stopped at Trader Joes and a guy say "hey I just winked at you..how you doin?" I would be beyond mortified..or maybe what happens if someone approaches me at the bar? How do I respond to that?
And another point- what happens if I go on a date and the guy does NOT look like the guy in the picture. How do I react to that?? I mean do I say your picture lied? And what about myself? What happens if the guy says umm your much prettier in the picture compared in person.
Last point- what happens if I meet the perfect guy? How do you tell your family and friends oh by the way I met him on MATCH.COM! Can you imagine the comments and remarks I may get? Am I being silly and doing this??
So far the responses have been pretty good. I can't decide if I should start prowling on guys or do I wait for them to come to me? What is the proper etiquette about on-line dating? I guess I should start winking at guys and see what may happen. I think I also may spice things up and find some creepy guys hahaha :)!
Mrk- I responded to his e-mail granted he is 27 thats ok...I mean a it older is fine..more experience right?? Well, he asked me what I have planned for this week..so lets hope for a date!! His pictures are pretty cute and I mean who knows right??
Man- Ok not gonna lie this is the first time I've like talked to an asian. Hahahaha how awful is that? I mean lets give him the benefit of the doubt. I am a bit hesitant because he messaged me at like 2 PM and I was at work. Does this guy not have a job?? No job no date lol. He Im"ed me..and said "hey cutie" I can't...I just ugh...hahahaha
Matt- He asked me what I was up to this weekend so maybe drinks?? He is SO my type!!! Cute, preppy, tall!!, not gonna lie he seem cocky/prick like...errr whatevs
Butta- He seems like an interesting character I can't tell if he is "hood" or a frat boy. He is a 6'3 ginger!!! I mean no problems I have an open mind! But again he messaged me earlier in the day...so what does he do?? Not sure...
Tonight a guy named Chris IM's me. Problems and red flags: He's 40 YEARS OLD, doesn't live in the city, is "hollering" at me. Ok match.com wtf? where is this age filter thing?? And secondly don't talk to me you can be my father freak.
So I winked:
at a northern gentleman (25 finance, super prep and so cute!)
jackattack (eh..kinda attractive, finance, 26)
africalover (worked in the peace corp and is now in finance, really cute and clearly has a good heart)
will (super cute, finance, 25)
mtl (he's worked abroad in china-such as hong kong, shanghai as a banker 26, SUPER cute!!)
italian love (OMG so hot!!! european!!)
Joe (he's asian!, use to be a finance guy and now owns his own photography business in nyc and nj, loved his pics, really cute, seems down to earth)
PJ (is 26, really cute!!, but i'm a bit worried...under about his date he put african american, native american and thats it..soo problemo??)
Dave (seems like a sweet guy as well...world traveler!, but again..has a thing for african american and hispanics...uhhh)
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